Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Just Friends

Yes, I believe that men and women can be just friends.  I know some people will beg to differ, but I can just speak from my experiences.  I have friends whom I've known for 5+ years and we have never hooked up, kissed, or held hands.  One of my good friends is white, but I am not attracted to him.  When I tell people this, they find it hard to believe me.  Their common response is, "...but don't you like white guys?"  Yes, I do.  But not all white guys.  I still need the attraction.  My friend is tall, fit, has blue eyes, and a great smile.  Would most people assume I'm attracted to him?  Yes, probably.  I see girls checking him out every time we hang out.  And yes, I know he's handsome.  But still, when I see him, I think of him as a brother, not a lover.

I am very thankful for the friends I have.  This particular friend has been there for me thru all the good and bad moments in my life.  He has never caused me any drama.  I told him that if only we had that sexual chemistry, we would probably be dating and someday married.  If only life were that easy!

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