Anonymous: What is your advice for having friends with benefits?
The best advice I can give you is to be clear about your intentions and set the ground rules right away. I never become fwb with a guy whom I have real feelings for. That’s just asking for trouble. If your instincts tell you that your potential fwb wants more, it’s probably not a good idea to get involved. After that, set ground rules. Can you have other fwb? What happens if you start dating someone? Are you going to hang out together in public? If you’re both clear on the expectations, there wouldn’t be any misunderstandings or drama. Then you can just enjoy each other and have lots of hot sex!