I addressed this in Q&A form on my Tumblr, but I wanted to go into detail here. Guys, if a girl tell you size doesn't matter, she is lying. Before you get upset, keep reading. What I mean by this is that the truth is, size does matter. I'm not saying you need a 10 inch cock because quite frankly, if you have one that big, stay away from me! For me personally, I like a cock between 6-7 inches. That is perfect! If you're smaller, that's fine. If you're a little bigger, that's fine too.
The biggest I've ever had was 9.5 inches and about 7 inches around (thick). He was already big when he was flaccid, but when he got hard, I nearly fainted. The thought of that inside of me, really scared me! But I really liked him and I wanted to at least try. The sex was ok. He hurt me a little and afterwards, I was sore. We could only have sex once (no round 2) and only every 3 days or so. It was so awful to be horny and go out with him and know he couldn't fuck me because my pussy was too sore. And anal was totally out of the question. We dated for about 2 months and I was sad when we broke up. But our sex life was unfulfilling and I didn't see the point in continuing our relationship.
The smallest was very small, about 4.5 inches and very thin. To his credit, he did warn me that his cock was small. When he first took down his pants, I was disappointed. But I liked him, so I figured I'd at least see what he had to offer. Surprisingly, the sex was good. His cock didn't fill me up as much a bigger cock would, but he knew how to use what he had. We also did anal and it was easy! He had amazing oral skills and could make me cum so quickly with just his tongue (no fingering). Even now, I still think he was in the Top 5 best lovers I've ever had.
The point of this post is that size matters. But guys, its not necessarily in the way you think. Too big is never a good thing and if your cock is the size of a pinkie, well that's not going to have girls dropping their panties either. Guys, just be happy with your size. Be the best at using what you have. Don't waste your time wishing you were bigger. Because in the end, you really can't change your size. And if you find a girl who really loves and cares about you, she won't care if you're the biggest she's ever had. Just fuck her brains out with what you have and she will be happy. And if a girl gives you shit about your cock size, dump her ass and move on. There will be a girl out there who will worship your cock like it should be!
Myli,
ReplyDeleteSuperb article. Should publish it on a medical journal.
May I add that a very long cock is almost totally wasted after 5 or 6 inches. And guys: experienced sluts like Myli and I can make good use of your cock - any size - we'll teach you how to use your cock on us.
Kisses,
-Amy
A thoughtful post. It's no different for us. I don't care if a woman has big breasts or is flat. It doesn't matter if she's thin (though "too thin" is disturbing; we don't want to see bone) or has gained weight. What matters is her personality, her sexuality, and how I feel when I'm with her. You have to be attracted to the person, but what "attractive" means to me may not be the same for the next guy. We're all different. There is no "ideal" woman and it's certainly not in the pages of some magazine.
ReplyDeleteDamn! Should have been born Black and not Asian. FML
ReplyDeleteAmy - I agree. A long cock is impressive to see, but doesn't add any real benefits to sex.
ReplyDeleteBuddha - I absolutely agree with you. My article was mainly about cock size and not the whole sexual experience. But I do agree with everything else you said. It's not just about cock and pussy size. I may need to address this further in another post!
Anonymous - Why should I have been born black? I'm confused!
Growing up, I was so conscious about size thinking I was to small being in between 6 and close to 7. I think many guys are like that also thinking they are to small. Then as we get older and find out that we are in the average range....lol lifes funny! Great post!! Myli and Amy...you make me horny!!
ReplyDeleteI think guys are way more concerned about size than girls are. I love cocks! They come in all sizes and shapes and that's what makes it fun. That's why I wrote this post. And if you're close to 7, you're in my "perfect" range :)
ReplyDeleteI agree with buddha! Great post Myli! BTW i would love to be taught by you or Amy!
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Yes, Buddha is quite full of wisdom and knowledge! And what makes you think you need to be taught by me or Amy? lol
ReplyDeleteI dont think i NEED to be...maybe its more a WANT..lol
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Ahhh, I like the way you think! It would be fun!
ReplyDeletei follow directions well!!! ;)
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They would be more like demands lol
ReplyDeleteeven better!
ReplyDeleteOk, that's why we get along lol
ReplyDeleteWow ok! i just recently found your blog and think it is the most insightful, RAW, and true comments/opinions from a woman that I have ever read! I mean come on people, we live in the 21st century, I finally found a woman who is not afraid to explore her sexuality and who is not afraid to fulfill her own desires like any man would! I am currently reading through all your blogs in chronological order and am very impressed and turned on by your writings, keep it coming! it's better than any magazine or book that i have ever read! Thanks Myli for the entertainment value! Yaheeks!
ReplyDeleteThank you for your kind words. I continue to share my stories and write this blog because of my readers, especially readers like you who take the time to write me comments and emails. I really do appreciate it!
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