I got this from my friend, ech0location, on Tumblr. He said:
"Stamina is important during sex, but you know what else is important? Knowing when to stop"I love this quote because this is exactly how I feel about stamina, in regards to sex. I know some people love long, lingering sex, but I do not. I have been told by guys that I am in the minority because most girls like to have sex for a long time. This doesn't really make any sense to me.
If you read my blog, you know I'm a huge fan of rough sex. I love it hard and fast. Sex just feels the best that way! I rather have a guy pound away at my pussy for 5 minutes and shoot his load in me, instead of fucking me good and hard for 2 minutes then slow down because he feels himself getting close to cumming. Then another 2 minutes of fucking, then stopping again. It's frustrating and I get turned off.
Before I hook up with a guy, I tell him about my love for rough sex. I tell him that stamina is not important to me, but being fucked hard is. I, of course, take his feelings into consideration too. But for the most part, guys are happy to have the stamina pressures taken off the table. If a guy is fucking me like I want it, seconds feel like hours. The pleasure is on my mind. not the ticks of a clock. Honestly, if after sex, you know exactly how long you were fucking (or being fucked), the sex obviously wasn't very good.
If I have an hour with my fwb, I'd much rather say that we had a Round 1, 2, 3, and 4 and thus made him cum 4 times, rather than say that we fucked for an hour and only made him cum once. And the same goes for me. I don't know if female stamina is important, but I'd much rather be fingered and squirt 4 times in an hour, rather than trying to hold back and just cum one time. I think 4 orgasms is always better than 1 right?
This post is about my personal preference. I am not saying that everyone should feel or fuck this way. If you and your partner like the way you are having sex, keep doing it. Rough sex isn't for everyone. Sex should be fun and enjoyable. But if you ever cross my path and want to satisfy me, short and sweet is the way to go! :)
Happy 4th of July to all my US readers! Have fun and be safe!
" I, of course, take his feelings into consideration too. " BAHAHAAAA. This made me bust out with laughter! You're so funny!
ReplyDeleteKnowing what you personally like one of the key ingredients to fantastic sex! You go girl!
Thank you, Elle! I am a demanding girl, but it's the only way to make sure I get fucked the way I want to lol
ReplyDeleteTaking notes.....hmmmm...
ReplyDeleteI love you more today than I did yesterday,
ReplyDeletebut not as much as I will tomorrow.
Me and two friends had a chat about this not so long ago and were surprised that all three of us hate it when sex goes on too long! I'm all about hard and fast, I've been known to daydream while having sex with guys that just go on and on so bloody slowly and stop and blah, it is a good opportunity to plan out some shopping lists in your head however but no definitely not for me, the media really needs to stop with the whole stamina is important and women like "making love" to be romantic, slow and gentle, it makes explaining to some guys why this is so wrong for me bloody difficult!
ReplyDeleteNorthern Guy - Taking notes? That's cute :)
ReplyDeleteTame Lion - Random, but thank you!
Little Miss Me - You are the best! I can admit that a few shopping lists have been done in my head before lol. I can't stand long sex sessions. It gets to the point where I have to tell them to cum or I am going to roll over and take a nap lol