Recently, I've had this conversation with a few readers, so I thought I'd write about it on my blog. In the past, I have used Craigslist to meet guys to hook up with. I was introduced to the "Casual Encounters" section about 3 years ago by a male friend. I had just gotten out of a long relationship and had no potential friends with benefits. I was initially very reluctant to post because I was sure I'd get crazies answering my ad. Furthermore, I had no idea what to write!
My male friend offered to come to my house to help me. He had answered ads in the past and told me he could give me some advice. We looked thru some W4M ads and I got an idea of what I wanted to write. Before I went to work the next day, I composed an ad. I basically put that I was looking for a single, white guy, around my age, who was looking for nsa only. I posted it and went to work.
I was shocked when I came home and had over 100 responses! I think in the span of 9 hours, I had received over 120 emails. I didn't even know where to start. I thought I'd get 5 emails, maybe 10. I wasn't prepared for so many messages. I read thru them and quickly deleted a bunch. Even though I had stated my preference for a white guy, I had numerous emails from guys who weren't white. I also had emails from guys who were old enough to be my dad. That was just creepy. The oldest was a 73 year old who told me I should give him a chance because he could do what 20 year olds couldn't. I didn't even want to know what he meant. Yuck.
After sorting thru all the emails, I narrowed it down to 5 guys. I had email conversations with each one to see if we were compatible and/or looking for the same thing. Then that progressed to texting and phone calls. In the end, I only met 2 of the guys. Both were military, single, good looking, and really nice guys. I was really surprised by how normal they were. No crazies! I met the first one at the movies and we had a great time. The sex with him was definitely above average. He was a good kisser and always went at least 2 rounds with me. We hooked up for about 3 months and then he found a girlfriend, so we stopped hooking up.
I met up with the second guy at a restaurant and we ate dinner together. He had me laughing the whole time, so I knew we would get along just fine. We ended up going back to my place and fucking all night. I never did see a picture of his cock before we met, though he had told me that he was average. But he was far from that. He was huge and after our first meeting, I was sore for days! We hooked up for about 6 months until he got restationed.
My experience using Craigslist was a positive one. Would I do it again? Sure. My advice to anyone considering the "Casual Encounters" section is to get to know the person first. I emailed/texted the 2 guys for about 3 weeks before we ever met. We talked about our pasts, sexual experiences, safe sex, relationships, work, everything! My general rule is that if you don't click with a guy thru emails or the phone, it wouldn't be any better in person. Guys who tell me "I'm better in person" are liars. I have NEVER met a guy who was a dud in text, but lots of fun in person.
If you have any questions about this, feel free to email me or comment below. Have fun and be safe out there!
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