TMI Tuesday - Choices

Her: I saw you flirting with her. Cheater!
Him: It’s not cheating if we don’t have intercourse.

1. You have been separated from your significant other for six months. An attractive, attentive neighbor has paid you flattering attention. It is obvious he/she wishes to take the relationship further. Do you:
a. Dismiss him/her, you’re in a committed relationship.
b. Continue to flirt, but go no further.
c. Fantasize about him/her, but take care of your sexual needs solo.
d. Let the affair become physical.


I am against cheating, so (d) is not an option.  My answer is mostly (a).  I do fantasize when I masturbate and if I were away from my man for that long, my mind may wander to someone besides him.  So (c) is a possibility too!

2. A male co-worker whom you have heard is great in bed and very well endowed has been flirting with you a lot. He obviously wishes to start a relationship. Do you:
(This question is for women AND men).
a. Make it clear to him you’re not interested.
b. Flirt with him but go no further
c. Mentally undress him and wonder what he’d be like in bed.
d. Let the relationship become sexual.

It depends on if I were attracted to him.  If so, the answer is (b).  If I'm not, then (a).  I am strongly against workplace relationships.  I'm already a huge flirt, so (b) isn't too far out of my realm. 


3. Your significant other is impotent most of the time, showing little interest in you and little interest in being sexual. Do you:
a. Resign yourself to no sex.
b. Satisfy your needs with masturbation
c. Find someone who can satisfy you sexually but remain with your significant other
d. Leave him or her


It depends on the background of the situation.  Sex is VERY important to me, so I doubt I could stay with a guy long if he had no desire to fuck me or to work on whatever issue was causing him to not be able to fuck me.  If it were a physical issue, I'd say (b).  If it were a matter of him just not finding me attractive anymore, I'd be (d).

4. The last time you and your mate had sex, were you:
a. Concentrating mostly on him/her, and you didn’t even orgasm
b. Thinking about your pleasure and theirs.
c. Concentrating mainly on your own pleasure.
d. Used his/her body as a tool to reach your own orgasm.


I don't have a bf, so the last time I had sex was with my fwb, Brandon.  He ravaged me first, so my answer is (c).  But after that, I made sure to take care of him, so it was (a).

5. What kind of partner do you prefer while making love or having sex?
a. Tender, loving, slow and sweeet
b. I don’t care, just do me; it’s been a while
c. Tough, take-charge, I like it a little rough
d. Any lovin’ is good lovin’


My answer is (c), though I don't like it a little rough.  I like it A LOT rough!  I like to be fucked. Hard. I'm not much into the whole making love thing, but that's because I'm not in love with anyone right now.


Bonus: Do you mind if your significant other ogles/checks out another sexy person? What if they comment on that person, do you mind that?


If I have a bf, I know he has eyes and will stare at a pretty girl.  It's human nature.  But if it's so obvious that it's disrespectful, I will get upset.  Comments are okay, as long as we aren't still talking about the girl 10 minutes later.  But that goes both ways.  If he's going to do it, I get to too!

Bonus, Bonus: What are your thoughts on the TMI Tuesday image above and the caption beneath it?


I don't think flirting is cheating.  Again, I tend to be a flirter, so I can't really say anything.  I don't do it on purpose.  But if I'm in a relationship and my bf is uncomfortable with certain things I say or do, I will do my best to NOT do it.  If you care about someone, you never want to hurt their feelings, even unintentionally. 
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