Some Free Time (and tidbits)

My new guy came over earlier and we had a nice day of fucking and napping.  He had to go back to work to check on some of his marines, so I figured I'd use this time to FINALLY catch up on some of the blogs I follow.  I've gone through my list and I am saddened to see that some of my favorites either closed their Blogger accounts or now have private blogs that I am unable to access.  That makes me very, very sad.  I hope you all are doing well.

I know I am terribly behind on writing new posts and for that, I am truly sorry. Thank you to my loyal readers who keep coming back, even though I don't have anything new posted.

I was recently offered a job at a competing company.  They are offering me more money and less work and responsibility.  It's been a tough decision because I've been with my company for awhile now and they have always been good to me.  I know this new company has a good reputation in Hawaii, so I'm pretty sure they'd treat me well.  But it's still tough to leave a company that I love and has many employees that I care about.  I have until Friday to make my decision and I'm still not sure what I want to do.

For those of you that want to contact me, I highly recommend you email me at:  aghwb@yahoo.com   If you choose to send me an IM, just know that I don't log on very often.  I am on Yahoo IM maybe once every two weeks and it's just to respond to add requests.

I know I wrote about this before, but I am not interested in meeting anyone offline.  I appreciate all the "friend" and date offers, but I decline every single one.  If I tell you 'no', it is not personal. I don't care how good looking or nice of a guy you are.  From Day 1, this blog was meant to be anonymous.  I haven't changed my mind about that.  I know some readers can't understand this logic, but meeting each one of you makes it impossible for me to be anonymous.  Hawaii is very small and I can guarantee that at least 1 of my readers either works at my company (we have over 10 offices on the island) or knows someone I work with.  I'm sorry if you think this makes me stuck up or snobby, but I have no intention of changing my mind about this.

I hope everyone is having a great weekend.  I can't wait until Halloween!  Josh and I are going down to Waikiki.  It is crazy there!  The streets are filled with people in costumes and it's just always a good time.  I had ideas for what I wanted to dress up as, but Josh had told me weeks ago that he had this fantasy of me being Wonder Woman, so I bought that costume online.  It quite a sexy costume and I'm loving the idea of being a superhero this year!

Have a nice weekend, everyone!

If You Wrote Me An Email (Or Are Thinking About It), Read This!!

I read and reply to every email that I receive (with the exception of hater messages).  I truly appreciate each and every message that I receive.  Anytime someone tells me that they read my blog, I am extremely flattered.  I started this blog 4 months ago and it's grown a lot more than I ever imagined.  And I really owe that all to my loyal readers.

With that being said, there's a few things I want to clear up.  If you're thinking of writing me an email, please be aware of these points:

1.  I am NOT a dating service.  I will not set you up with my friends.  I don't know any single asian girls who like white guys.  My guys (friends with benefits) are not interesting in meeting you either.  They are my friends with benefits.  I put in the work to meet these guys and you can do the same, if you are looking for a fwb.

2.  I am NOT looking for a friends with benefits through my blog.  I meet my fwb in real life.  I appreciate the offers, but if you're writing me in hopes of getting to fuck me, you're wasting your time.

3.  I am NOT looking for new platonic friends either.  I appreciate the offers to take me to dinner or the movies, but I created this blog under the premise that I would be anonymous.  This island is too small and everyone knows everyone.

Of course, if you need advice or need someone to talk to, I am always here.  I just feel like somewhere along the line, some readers got the idea that I am looking to meet people from my blog.  I am not.  The intention of my blog was to share my encounters.  I was never in this to meet new people offline.  I'm sorry if this upsets some of my readers, but I'm being honest.  I have no intention of leading anyone on.

My goal is still to respond to all emails within 24 hours.  I am about 25 emails behind right now, but I plan to catch up on all of them by the end of the night.  Thank you again to all my readers.  You mean a lot to me.  I wouldn't continue to do this blog if there weren't people who read it.  I love you all!

What's Going On Here?

This isn't my screenshot, but it's a general idea of what I saw today!

 

Matt and I had the day to ourselves and decided to go into town and see the sights.  We both hadn't checked our emails or Facebook since Friday, so we brought our laptops to Starbucks and figured we'd just hang out there before we had to be home for the dinner Matt's mom was cooking. 

I logged into my email and I was speechless.  I usually get between 5-10 emails a day, but I had told my friends I'd be going on this trip, so they knew not to email me.  Imagine my surprise when I saw that I had over 100 unread emails!  And that was only since late Friday night!   I told Matt about it and he said that maybe someone had promoted my blog on Tumblr.  That was a possibility, but even when that happens, I get a lot of hits on my blog, but not that many emails. 

I took the time to email a few of the guys back and I quickly realized the emails were from guys in Hawaii.  Almost every email was a guy offering to be my friends with benefits.  It's rare that a guy from Hawaii emails me, so I asked a few of the guys how they found my blog.  I won't say here what they told me, but whoever you are, thank you!  I have no idea why you did what you did, but I appreciate the traffic to my blog.  According to blogger, I've had over 7,000 hits in the last 2 days.  I usually average 600/day.

Let me clear something up, I am not planning on finding my new friends with benefits through my blog.  I will keep an open mind, but it's just not my plan right now.  Secondly, I will answer all the emails I've gotten, but it might take me awhile since, again, Matt's parents have dial up only.  I appreciate all the emails I've gotten and I will get back to you all soon!

I'm having a wonderful time in Wisconsin.  It makes me sad to think I am leaving on Sunday :(  I hope everyone is having a nice week!

How Is It Not Racist? (email response)

 
I got an email from someone asking me "Why do you think you're not racist, when you so clearly state that you like white boys?" And here's my answer...I never said I only like white boys.  It's about attraction.  When I wake up in the morning, I know I like men.  I don't question if I like women instead.  It's just how I feel inside.  I know my attraction is to men.  It's the same for white boys.  I see a group of guys and I'm typically attracted to the white guy.  But I have had crushes and dated other races.

In high school, my boyfriend was a mix of Filipino and Japanese.  In college, my boyfriend was Mexican, Filipino, and Chinese.  I have since dated a Hispanic and African American guy.  But the majority have been white.

I am open minded and if I saw a guy I was attracted to and wanted to get to know better, I wouldn't care what ethnic background he was.  I'd be interested in getting to know more about him and what kind of person he is.  Attraction and chemistry is hard to predict, so I believe in going with my gut and seeing where it leads me.  And if he happens to have blue eyes, that'd be nice :)