Answering Reader FAQs, Part 1

I have been asking for submissions from my readers for my FAQ post and here are the questions I received. (If you don't see your question here, it will be in Part 2)

1. What do you look like?
I am asian, short (5'4"), 120 pounds, long brown hair, dark brown eyes.  My tits are a C cup.

2. Aren't you afraid of getting STDs?  Do you get tested and/or have you ever caught any STDs?
Yes, STDs (and pregnancy) are always on my mind.  I get tested every 3 months.  I make the guys get tested at least every 3 months too.  I am careful to always use condoms and have been lucky to never have caught any STDs.

3. I know a lot of girls who will not suck dick after the condom is pulled off because of the taste, can you taste the difference?
Yes, I can taste the condom.  It has a very distinctive taste, but after a few sucks, I get used to it.  And it's not enough of a taste to make me NOT want to suck his cock. I would warn against using any lubricated or spermicidal condoms though.  Those can numb your tongue (or at least it has in my experience)! 

4. When or if you are ready to be in a serious relationship, would you tell your partner about all your sexual exploits i.e. your gang bangs, threesomes and multiple partners?  And do you think that it will be harder for you to find/keep someone to marry you who accepts you for what you did and who you are/were?
The way I am now is not a new thing.  I've been this way since my early 20's.  When I've had relationships, my boyfriend may have asked if I've done things like anal or a threesome, but they don't want the details.  I wouldn't hide anything from a boyfriend, but I also wouldn't go bragging about it all.  And no, I don't think it will be harder for me to find a boyfriend/husband.  I am who I am.  I don't have a problem with monogamy.  I don't feel like my past sexual experiences make me an unsuitable girlfriend/wife. 

5. Did you ever read any Nietzsche?
I will be the first to admit that I hated English and Literature in high school and college.  I read the books I needed to, but not much beyond that.  I'm pretty sure I never read any Nietzsche.

6. What would you do if one of your FWB admitted that they were in love with you?
I've have a FWB tell me they had feelings for me and it SUCKS!  If this happened with one of my current guys, I'd ask him to think about if he was really in love with me or if it was just a fleeting thing.  When you share such intimate moments, it's easy to get your feelings confused.  And if he was going thru a tough time at work or something, it could make him feel more connected to me than he really is.  But if after all that, he was still in love with me, I'd have to cut off our FWB relationship.  If I felt like he could handle a platonic friendship, I'd be ok with that.  If not, I'd have to cut him off entirely.  It's sad, but I don't like drama and continuing a FWB relationship with someone who has feelings of love, is bound to lead to drama. 

7. How can I get a friends with benefits?  (asked by a guy)
It's hard for me to give accurate advice to this question because well, I'm not a guy.  My approach to finding male FWBs is probably very different than a guy trying to find a female FWB.  But the general advice I give to males and females is this:  Go out.  Be active.  You can't sit at home and expect a FWB to just fall into your lap.  Make new friends.  Go to parties and get togethers.  Post an ad on Craigslist. Tell your friends what you're looking for and ask them if they know anyone they can set you up with. Don't rule anyone out.  The person you meet at a party may not be what you're looking for, but they might know someone they can set you up with.  

8. Should I ask my friend to be a FWB?  (asked by a girl)
The main thing to consider here is if you're prepared to possibly lose the friendship.  In my opinion, you can never go back to being just friends.  If things go bad or one of you ends up having feelings for the other, you will probably not be friends anymore.  In most cases, I say it's worth the risk. If he is single, most times, he won't turn down the chance to have sex with you.  It's impossible to predict how it will all play out though.

9. Have you ever been in love?  
Yes, I have been in love.  I've been in serious relationships.  When I started this blog in May, I was about 6  months out of my last relationship.

10. Tell us about the guy you're dating.  What makes him special?
I don't want to talk too much about the guy I'm seeing.  He is a great guy and I do spend a lot of my free time with him.  But we are still just getting to know each other.  Neither of us wants to rush into anything.  We went to the University of Hawaii football game on Saturday and had a great time!  He is in the military and he is white.  As for what makes him special...it was just instant chemistry.  The first time we hung out, our conversation was so easy.  We found out that we had a lot in common and he got my sense of humor.  When I'm around him, I can't stop smiling.

I will be posting Part 2 of the FAQ within the next week.  If you'd still like to ask a question, feel free to email me.  Thank you again to all my readers for submitting questions.  Have a nice Sunday!

Hotel Adventure Part 1

Josh and I got to the hotel and checked in without a problem. Our room was gorgeous!  We had a king sized bed, a huge bathroom, a wrap around balcony with a view of the beach, a couch, and a small dining room table.  I put down my bags and lay on the bed.  He laid next to me and kissed me.  He was already trying to take off my clothes and I laughed.  "Slow down," I told him. "We have all night!"   "But I want you right now!" he told me.  I smiled and I told him I had an idea for a quickie as I pointed to the mirror above the desk in our room.  He smiled back at me and started taking off his clothes.  I saw him reach for our new box of condoms, so I knew he was as ready as I was!

I bent over the desk and he immediately got behind me and started kissing up and down my back.  He lifted my long hair and kissed the back of my neck.  He whispered in my ear that he couldn't wait to fuck me, so I reached my hand behind, grabbed his cock, and put him in my wet, waiting pussy.

He felt so good inside me.   He was so hard and he let out a moan.  I looked at him in the mirror and we smiled at each other.  "I want you to see how good you make me feel", I said to him, while still looking into the mirror.  And with that, he grabbed onto my waist and started fucking me. I started moaning and he did too.  I was watching his face in the mirror and he looked so sexy!  He let go of my waist and reached for my hair.  He pulled back and I saw him smile as he saw the tortured look in my face.  I begged him to fuck me harder and he did.  He kept telling me how good my pussy felt and how hard I was going to make him cum.  He let go of my hair and started spanking my ass.

I let out little yells as he slapped my ass.  "You're such a bad girl", he said.  "The spanking is supposed to be your punishment, but your pussy gets wetter each time, so I know you're loving it".  I nodded.  He reached over and grabbed my tits, pulled me in real close and started pounding my pussy really hard.  I was screaming and loving every minute.  I grabbed onto the desk tightly and begged him for more.  He started whispering in my ear that he was about to cum and I begged him to cum all inside of me.

I reached around and squeezed his thigh and told him how bad I wanted him to cum in me.  He was moaning loudly in my ear and I knew he was close.  He was fucking me so hard and I loved watching him in the mirror.  "Cum for me, babe", I said to him.  He nodded at me in the mirror and I felt him shake and cum all inside me.  He fell onto my back and was breathing heavy.  "Fuck babe, I came so hard!".  And we both giggled.  He kissed my back and we both fell back into the bed.

"Damn, you looked so sexy when you came", I told him.  He reached over to cuddle me and said, "This is just the beginning.  I hope your asian pussy is ready for more!"  I smiled as I realized we had only been in the hotel room for half an hour!  I grabbed his hand and pulled him towards the bathroom.  "We had shower sex on the list," I told him.  "Let's knock that one out next!"  He just looked at me and said "Fuck yeah!" and I knew we were on to Round 2!

(Click here to read Part 2 of the Hotel Adventure)

A tumblr kind of night

I had dinner plans with a friend earlier in the night and then I hauled ass home to change and go see Josh.  He hadn't mentioned the boyshorts again, but I wore some anyway.  I figured they were such a big hit the last time that I'd wear some again. This time though, I just wore some pink cotton ones.

I got to his house and he looked gorgeous.  He wasn't wearing a shirt, just some basketball shorts.  He grabbed me, looked me over, and kissed me.  He grabbed my hand and pulled me into his bedroom.  We kissed again and he started talking my clothes off.  I reached down and rubbed his cock and he was already rock hard.  He saw my pink boyshorts and a huge smile crossed his face.  He rubbed my ass with both hands and slowly took my panties off.  He pushed me onto the bed and buried his head in my pussy.  He was furiously licking my clit and I loved seeing his face between my legs.  Our eyes met and I whispered, "Just fuck me already" to him.

He stood up and I sucked his cock while he fumbled with the condom.  He got the condom on and he pushed me back on the bed and fucked me missionary style.  He pushed one leg back and fucked me really deep.  I was moaning and begging for more.  He grabbed my other leg, pushed it back toward my shoulders and fucked me hard.  I was moaning when he kissed me and temporarily muffled them.  He stopped kissing me.  "I love it when you moan for me, baby". and smiled.  "I love it when you cum for me, baby" I replied.  He grabbed my legs and threw them over his shoulders and fucked me harder.  I looked into his blue eyes and I knew he was about to cum.  I mouthed "fuck me and cum for me" over and over and he closed his eyes and came.  He grabbed onto my waist and I felt him convulsing inside of me.  He looked at me and let out a laugh.  "That was fucking amazing", he said to me. He bent over to kiss my forehead and we went to get cleaned up.

After that, we were both laying on his bed, naked, and I checked my cell.  I told Josh about someone I had been texting and he assumed it was a guy.  I told him it was actually a new female friend I met on tumblr.  He didn't know what tumblr was, so I explained it to him.  Then he wanted to know about my new friend.  He asked me if she liked white boys like I do.  Then he wanted me to send her a pic of him.  He's such a dork.  He said that maybe a pic of him will make her become a white boy lover like me. So I sent her the pic and we had a good laugh about that.  I was still texting her when he started playing with my pussy and trying to finger me.

But then Josh wanted to see what tumblr was all about, so I logged into my account on his computer and when my dashboard came up, he saw a bunch of naked/porn pics and his eyes got big.  He was quickly scrolling thru all the pictures and loving what he saw.  I started to feel neglected.  I got on my cell again and posted a quick message on tumblr about what was going on.  He didn't see it because he was still scrolling down my page!

I knew I had to do something to get his attention back, so I laid on his back and started kissing the back of his neck, then down his shoulders, down his back, down to his ass, and his legs.  By the time I got to his ankles, he was moaning.  He rolled onto his back and his cock was rock hard.  "You started this," he said.  "Now sit on my big white cock and make me cum again".  I saw him reach for another condom and all I could think of was how much I loved riding him.  Tumblr was pretty much forgotten after that...

(Edit 6/5/11 - If you want to see my Tumblr, it's:  http://asiangirlheartswhiteboys.tumblr.com/   It's essentially what you see here with some random questions and picture posts.  Check it out if you're interested)